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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • topperharlie@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•Invites
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    14 days ago

    The amount of interns/students commenting “its fine/skill issue”, shows the demographic of lemmy and how comfortable people are giving stupid opinions about problems they don’t have, but are apparently experts on.

    To all of you: having the email both in inbox and calendar gives another sorting of the information, which is always a good thing. Some people might prefer removing the emails to “tidy up” inbox, but that shouldn’t make it the only option (because those people, other than OCD, probably don’t have more than 10 emails / day, with > 50 they would have give up on tidy)


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    14 days ago

    no, they could have been received different days, that is why losing them from inbox is a pain. It doesn’t happen when you are a junior/intern/small company, but in big companies you end up receiving a ton of invites, being able to easily access the one you accepted today, two hours ago or two days ago by reception date rather than meeting date is a huge help. You basically have an additional sorting of those invite emails.

    to the point where I just don’t accept any to keep them in the inbox.

    The fact that your particular use case doesn’t need this, doesn’t mean everyone else is doing it wrong. jeezz, the audacity of people… you must work for Microslop, they think exactly like you: “if I don’t need it, surely no one does, or they are doing something wrong”


  • fair enough, I just wanted to raise awareness to avoid people reading it not feel “just guilty” because of their nature, but rather feel a bit of support on a world designed for others.

    Of course we all just try to get by and do as good as we can to different levels of success, I just dislike the “all is voluntary” discourse, I find it quite non diverse disguised as “healthy life”.

    And yes, specially infuriating when coming from doctors who should know better.


  • You might, not everyone can, trued it for a while and was having way worse and shorter sleeping in the end, with the added pressure of being angry all the time because I was fighting my internal clock.

    I might sleep less, but letting it flow makes my overal mental health be much better. And I’m very positive and happy most times.


  • idk, I’ve preached at about this so many times that at this point I don’t give the benefit of the doubt, I just read it as “get in line, night owl == lazy / early bird == healthy positive people”

    Like I know sleeping is important, but assuming early bed time is a choice and doesn’t have a natural component is really arrogant. Your assumption that takes 30 min to nod off is wildly naive, many night owls like myself have the challenge that if we go to bed “30 min earlier” we might not sleep at all, if it was a constant time most of us would have become early birds by societal pressure.


  • topperharlie@lemmy.worldtoComic Strips@lemmy.world•Wise Owl
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    23 days ago

    This comic written by an early bird person blaming night owls for not being early birds using an owl as the token of knowledge is quite insulting.

    You can sleep going to bed early? then enjoy the present life gave you and how much work life is architectured around you and stop preaching to the people that naturally has an internal clock different than yours.

    you preachy little shit.