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Cake day: August 15th, 2023

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  • Here’s a tip: don’t publicly theorise about things that you have close to no knowledge about. This shouldn’t have to be said.

    Nothing wrong with discussing shit you’re not an expert on. If it’s not proven, it’s not proven, they’re not hurting anything by suggesting their ideas. You don’t have to be an expert to do that. Maybe someone will come up with something no one has thought of before that could then be investigated by experts.




  • Yeah this would actually be fucking awesome but merchants are either lying or terrible at listing products in a way that’s actually useful for searching them or the results are weighted by whoever’s giving the search engine money.

    I was looking for a desk mat on Amazon a while back and their ai couldn’t even find one with the dimensions I wanted. I had to scroll through dozens of them and find it myself. That should be an easy one, what other properties is a desk mat going to have besides it’s dimensions, what it’s made out of, and what color/picture is it? But no, lets make this take half an hour.













  • when a partner will never make a move, or hasn’t made a move in a long time.

    That’s how I’ve ended up in situations like the OP. If she’s shot me down the last 20 times I’ve tried to initiate anything I’m going to stop doing it. It’s on her to let me know when she’s in the mood at that point. I’m not gonna just keep dealing with rejection and feeling like I’m pressuring her to do shit she’s not interested in for whatever reason.


  • Yeah, I’ve had exes where them being in their underwear meant they wanted to have sex. It also meant they were just getting ready for bed and weren’t the slightest bit interested. If I was in bed watching a video on my phone it means I’ve already broached the subject and been shot down. I’m not going to make an attempt again just because she took her clothes off. She’s going to need to actually communicate if she changed her mind.


  • If I could just get something to record all the ideas that come up while I’m in the middle of something and the juices are flowing that would be great. Maybe check my parts inventory to see I have all the stuff I’d need to act on it or look up reference information while it’s at it. That’d be way better than my current strategy of jotting down a quick note and not looking at it again until I’m no longer in the zone and don’t feel like doing anything.

    Not putting a chip in my head though, it’d have to be some kind of self hosted thing I could talk to.