• rabber@lemmy.ca
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    1 month ago

    I dunno I thought I wanted this and took a job at a datacenter

    Some days I don’t even interact with another human

    5 years into this and it’s completely killed my social skills and therefore social life, im thinking about moving on for this reason actually

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      If it pays ok, why not volunteer?

      You get to socialise, you get to feel a part of your community, you get to feel like you’re making a difference, etc.

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        I don’t know why but the hermit nature of the job leaks into my real life and I tend to not want to socialize outside of work either

        It’s all been a slow burn in this way

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          Im in the same boat. Perpetual screen time is fine if you have colleagues next to you that you can shoot the shit with. Without them? Brain becomes a spongey moss

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            It’s not just screen time in my case. Alone in the datacenter at night is like some liminal space and it feels like there is something inherently unhealthy standing amongst the whirring server racks. Even with hearing protection it just drives a guy mad in a way